Is My Child’s IEP Working? 5 Signs to Watch For

Written By Philip Parmar

By Prometheus Minds

As a parent, you want to believe your child’s IEP (Individualized Education Program) is being implemented just as it was designed — with care, consistency, and attention to your child’s unique needs. But what happens when progress stalls, behaviors return, or your gut just says something’s off?

It’s not always easy to know if an IEP is truly being followed, or if it’s even working. That’s why we created this guide to help you evaluate what’s really happening — and what to do if you’re unsure.

1. You're Not Seeing Academic Growth

If your child continues to struggle with the same skills month after month — especially in reading, writing, or math — it may be a sign that the accommodations, modifications, or interventions aren’t effective or being implemented properly.

Ask yourself:

  • Are progress reports showing improvement?

  • Is your child performing closer to grade level?

  • Are goals being updated, or do they feel recycled each year?

2. There’s a Lack of Communication from the School

An effective IEP process includes regular, clear communication from teachers, case managers, and specialists.

Red flag: If you're only hearing from the school at annual ARD meetings or when there's a problem, that’s not enough.

You should be informed of:

  • When and how supports are being delivered

  • Progress monitoring updates

  • Any changes in your child’s behavior, engagement, or performance

3. Your Child Feels Frustrated or Left Out

Even the best-written IEP won’t work if it’s not creating a better experience for your child. If your child complains about feeling “different,” “confused,” or unsupported, something may be wrong.

Listen for phrases like:

  • “No one helps me.”

  • “I don’t get extra time.”

  • “I always get in trouble.”

These comments might mean that services aren’t being delivered as planned.

4. Behavior Problems Are Increasing

Many IEPs include behavioral goals or support plans — especially for students with ADHD, autism, or anxiety. If your child’s behavior is worsening, it could be a sign that accommodations (like breaks, sensory tools, or quiet spaces) are not being offered consistently.

A sudden drop in behavior is often one of the first signs that something is off.

5. You Feel Confused, Rushed, or Unheard at IEP Meetings

Parents are equal members of the IEP team — and should feel that way. If meetings feel like a formality, or if you're pressured to agree with changes you don’t understand, it's okay to ask for more clarity, or a second opinion.

At Prometheus Minds, we regularly help families review IEPs, audit school implementation, and offer clear recommendations that empower parents to advocate effectively.

What to Do If You’re Concerned

  • Ask for documentation of how IEP services are being delivered

  • Request a meeting to review progress and goal alignment

  • Keep your own notes on school communication and concerns

  • Get an independent IEP audit

Prometheus Minds Offers IEP Audits That Work for You

Our IEP Audit Service helps families:

  • Understand what their child’s IEP actually includes

  • Identify whether accommodations and goals are being followed

  • Get expert recommendations from certified special education professionals

Your child deserves more than paperwork. They deserve a plan that works.

Schedule your IEP Audit today at prometheusminds.com or call (651) 386-0166

Philip Parmar
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